If you’re looking for a unique, fun, and sometimes hilariously educational way to spend an evening with friends, a toy party might be just the thing. These events have grown in popularity as a great way to learn about intimate products in a comfortable, no-pressure setting. Whether you’re a first-timer or a seasoned pro, here’s everything you need to know about how these parties work, what to expect, and how to host one yourself!

Now that we have opened up in offering Toy Parties, we wanted to share how they work and what to expect in a general sense rather than assume you’ll choose us. There are plenty of wonderful companies out there and to find one that aligns with your goals, personality, etc is always the best route to go.

What is a Toy Party?

Think: “Tupperware party”—but instead of kitchenware, the products being showcased are adult toys, lingerie, lubricants, and other intimacy-enhancing items. A representative from a company specializing in these products will guide attendees through a fun, informative presentation, often allowing them to see, touch (non-use), and ask questions about different items.

These parties can be a great way to explore new things in a relaxed, non-judgmental environment with friends. Many people enjoy attending because it removes the awkwardness of shopping for adult products in a store while providing expert advice.

How Do These Parties Work?

The following is a general structure:

1. The Host and the Guest List

A host (this could be you!) invites a group of friends over for a private, in-home event. The guest list typically includes close friends, co-workers, or even wedding parties looking for a fun night. Some companies also offer virtual parties for those who prefer to attend from home. Complexxxus prefers to conduct them in person; however, if you have specific needs, we can easily accommodate! 

2. The Consultant or Representative

A trained representative from our company leads the event. They bring a selection of products and share knowledge about how they work, their benefits, and tips for usage. We are educated and ready to talk about anything and everything – believe us when we say there’s no question that hasn’t already been asked so don’t be shy! Get the most out of your experience. In addition, we will reach out to see if there’s something specific you would like to know and learn more about for a tailored, special feel.

3. Icebreakers & Games

To get everyone comfortable, many parties start with icebreaker activities or fun games related to relationships, romance, or general knowledge about intimacy. This helps lighten the mood and ensures everyone is relaxed before the product demonstrations begin. For us, this can range from including fun and surprising trivia, to something intimate with tantalizing your senses. Just know verbal consent will be agreed and understood prior to any and all contact! For the sake of being perfectly clear, if consent is not freely given, physical contact will not be made.

4. Product Demonstrations

The consultant will introduce different products, demonstrating how they work (without actual use, of course) and explaining their features. This part of the party is interactive—guests can ask questions, feel the materials, and get professional insights on different items.

5. Ordering Process

After the demonstration, guests can place private orders. We offer one-on-one ordering sessions in a separate room to maintain privacy. This allows guests to ask more personal questions and make selections discreetly. Orders are typically shipped directly to the buyer’s home for added confidentiality.

6. Wrap-Up and Fun Additions

Some hosts like to add their own personal touch to the event with themed decorations, goodie bags, or even pairing the party with wine, snacks, or desserts. It’s all about making it an enjoyable experience! This is pretty common and definitely adds a nice touch to everyone’s experience.

What to Expect as a Guest

If you’ve been invited to one of these parties, here’s what you can expect:

• A judgment-free atmosphere – Everyone is there to learn and have fun.
• Lots of laughs – These parties tend to be full of giggles and lighthearted moments.
• No pressure to buy – While you’ll have the option to make purchases, there’s never an obligation.
• Education and empowerment – You’ll likely leave with new knowledge and possibly some products to enhance your personal life.

Tips for Hosting a Successful Party

Thinking about hosting your own party? Here are some tips to make it a great experience:

• Choosing the right consultant – There are quite a few companies out there that conduct these events like Pure Romance and Passion Parties; however, if you are interested in Complexxxus just know that education and empowerment are our primary goals. We keep things professional and fun to help make the night go smoother!
• Curate the guest list – Invite friends who are open-minded and will contribute to a fun and relaxed vibe.
• Set the scene – Create a comfortable and welcoming environment with food, drinks, and cozy seating.
• Keep it light and fun – Don’t worry about things getting too serious. A little humor goes a long way in these events.
• Offer incentives – Double check with the company you choose and there’s multiple ways the incentives work. For us, we offer host rewards for a free product or store credit to use on your own time. Also, special discounts will be given to your guests! 

Final Thoughts

Toy parties are an entertaining and educational way to explore intimate products without the pressure of shopping alone. Whether you’re attending as a guest or hosting your own, expect a night filled with laughter, learning, and maybe even some exciting new discoveries!

If you’re interested in booking a toy party with us, please fill out the contact form with “Toy Party” in the subject line and in the message box include your location along with desired dates for the event.